![]() ![]() Someone mentioned to me to play courage games with him, and being Jungian, I thought it was a fabulous idea. ![]() He was constantly holding onto me afraid and crying. When Ruarc was a toddler, he was terrified of everything. To teach them that pain is ok, it happens and it doesn’t have to be traumatic. So I have made a conscious effort in raising my children differently. I don’t want my children to be paralyzed by fear. Albert Einstein said that one of the most important questions you will ever ask is whether the universe is a friendly place. Anticipate evil in everything and everyone. She was sending her children a message ‘ to be afraid of the world, because evil lurks in it everywhere. Never mind that this is absolute nonsense, I was stunned that someone would consciously raise their children in fear. She told me at the time that they were not allowed to watch anything on TV with martial arts in it, so no Power Rangers, Ninja turtles etc. When I was a young woman, I went to visit a relative who had two small sons. Fear is the most paralyzing, painful and debilitating emotion. Why was I able to do it again and better?īecause the second time around, I knew what to expect and I was not afraid. (referring here to heartrate and other indicators ) I breathed through the pain and delivered an abnormally happy baby. My third child’s birth was also natural, but this time I was like Superwoman. It was probably the most traumatic and painful experience I have ever lived through. My Gyne was really cross about it and tried to bully me, but I was insistent. My firstborn was a ceaser because she was breach and I was determined to have natural birth this time around. When I was in labour with my second child I was terrified. ![]()
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